Me and my girlfriend were dating for 8 months. Things were great, and we both told each other that we had never felt this way or been best friends w/ a gf/bf before. I did some stupid things to push her feelings away – I didnt tell her the whole truth about some things, and sometimes I could be arrogant or annoying to others when she was around me, which I know she didnt like. I didnt cheat or do anything physical. It was nothing I did on purpose or to hurt her. I just made some mistakes that I know are not in my nature, and I want to show her the real me again, and that I have grown-up and changed for the best.
She broke up with me about 5 weeks ago. I sent her flowers, letters, etc. I know that I shouldnt have done this, but thats in the past. Her friend told me she just wants to be alone right now, so Ive decided to leave her alone for a month. I know I love her and it hurts me that I didnt tell her that before all of this happened. Anyone have any advice? Thanks…
But what can I do right now to show her that I can be trusted?
Thank you prave,
I know I have to just give her time. I have decided to not talk to her for 1 full month (started beginning on this month), and just give her space. Then I will just ask her to get together, go out on a simple date (I am going to suggest going to where we went on our first date). Hopefully she will agree, and I will just be myself, like I was early on in the realtionship. But it just hurts that I cant talk to her or see her. Everyday I think about her, dream about her, and I have come to the conclusion that I do not want anyone else but her. I just want the opportunity to make up for my mistakes, and I know we can be even stronger than we were before.
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