My son is in grade 10, and he seems wound up tightly, stressed, and unhappy. How can I get him to loosen up?
List of projects he is currently working on and making progress in:
Learning 3D animation
Learning HTML
Learning CCS or CSS ( I forget)
Learning German
Making notes for Chemistry and physics. Topics he will learn in two years.
Philatelic Exhibit
Designing a submarine glider thing.
Designing an aquaponics facility.
Building the shed for the aquaponics tank. (Have a large yard)
Running the campaign of a candidate for alderman.
Building the website for said campaign.
Designing the graphics for campaign.
Science fair next year.
He is making considerable headway on each of these, but the cost appears to be high. He sleeps for 3 hours a day on average, spends all his time in his room on his laptop, working on the shed, or using this plotter my father bought for him.
He has no friends, except for a few adults he knows through award ceremonies or the Internet. He has basically killed off his emotions as well. He has no interest in girls, and tries to avoid talking to girls whenever possible.
I personally feel that his health is threatened. I once found him collapsed on his desk from fatigue. However, my husband said that is not a major issue. He and my father procured all the equipment and materials to make all his projects possible and are genuinely happy with my sons projects and they keep on buying the materials to help him do more. They want him to work on renewable energy next, for the aquaculture tank.
Anyway, what are your thoughts on this? A lot of you said previously to leave him alone to succeed. Problem is, he is very close to complete burnout.
He is also a good actor. Very polite in public, but cold privately, and you can tell he is fighting with his emotions.
My questions:
How can I get him to stop and smell the roses?
Why does he dislike talking to girls/women?
Is 3 hours of sleep enough?
Any other thoughts/comments?