…not because they are unclean, but because they are on a prescribed medication or protocol of nutrients and herbs due to a chronic illness? This person is not contagious, and has a great personality and way with people–unless they respond openly and negatively to her body odor. She bathes constantly. She cannot wear perfumes because she has severe chemical sensitivities or allergies. So, please do not make common assumptions or suggestions.
My question is what is the most polite and compassionate way to respond? I think people should just grow up and not make such a big deal out of something she cannot control. But I have seen her have to deal with bullying, gossip, laughter, people openly plugging up their noses in her presence, cashiers who make sure they don’t touch her hands, etc.. She is very brave, but is also wondering what most people are thinking. It takes time, but most people get over it, esp. once they get to know her. She has more to fear from strangers.
Please don’t make me out to be a saint. I am human, and I have had my share of health issues too.
I am telling you, this woman is great. She is funny; sexy; creative; a talented teacher, writer, and performing artist. The way some people react to her, I am amazed that she gets onstage at all. Once they get over it, I have seen audiences eating out the palm of her hand, esp. when she sings.
She is popular among most of her students, peers, and the artists who take the time to get to know her.
It’s the people who don’t take the time to get to know her who seem to think it is their right to harrass her or talk about her behind her back. She is a fine person–unless you cross her or openly react to her body odor.
Here’s another question: How can I (or she) learn to have compassion for the people who make fun of her or treat her like a leper? Maybe they are the ones with the bigger problems. Hmmm….
Plz star this one so that I can get a broad range of opinions.
